My Little Red Book Tour

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March is Women’s History month.

To celebrate women, I am sharing with you all a book that I’ve had the opportunity to read and review.

My Little Red Book by Rachel Kauder Nalebuff is a book that explores what happens when a girl “becomes a woman” for the first time.

I was interested in reading this book because it sounded like something along the lines of Eve Ensler’s Vagina Monologues. Becoming a woman is one of those mysterious rites of passage that we know happens, but rarely discuss. Nalebuff has broken the lock of secrecy on first periods by interviewing women from a variety of backgrounds on their first periods and compiling these wonderful stories in one place.

Here’s a little explanation of My Little Red Book’s genesis:

MY LITTLE RED BOOK is an anthology of stories about first periods, collected from women of all ages from around the world. The accounts range from light-hearted (the editor got hers while water skiing in a yellow bathing suit) to heart-stopping (a first period discovered just as one girl was about to be strip-searched by the Nazis). The contributors include well-known women writers (Meg Cabot, Erica Jong, Gloria Steinem, Cecily von Ziegesar), alongside today’s teens. And while the authors differ in race, faith, or cultural background, their stories share a common bond: they are all accessible, deeply honest, and highly informative. Whatever a girl experiences or expects, she’ll find stories that speak to her thoughts and feelings.

“Ultimately, MY LITTLE RED BOOK is more than a collection of stories. It is a call for a change in attitude, for a new way of seeing periods. In a time when the taboo around menstruation seems to be one of the few left standing, it makes a difficult subject easier to talk about, and helps girls feel proud instead of embarrassed or ashamed. By revealing what it feels like to undergo this experience first hand, and giving women the chance to explain their feelings in their own words, it aims to provide support, entertainment, and a starting point for discussion for mothers and daughters everywhere. It is a book every girl should have. Period.”

I enjoyed reading the personal stories of the women who contributed to this book. Some are sad, others had me laughing out loud. What impressed me along with the personal accounts was the fact that the stories in this book were compiled by Nalebuff beginning when she was thirteen, and was completed when she was sixteen. Quite a feat for a teenager. I thought this would be  a great book to include in a Women’s Studies class, or as a mother/daughter book club read. Menstruation is a part of every women’s life, and it should be celebrated as a passage into a new phase of life, not veiled in secrecy or shame.

Please visit the following bloggers to read their reviews, and enter to win a copy of the book for yourself or someone you know.

http://www.writeforareader.blogspot.com
http://martasmeanderings.blogspot.com/
http://confessionsofaromancebookaddict.wordpress.com/
http://athomewithbooks.blogspot.com/
http://shereadsandreads.blogspot.com/
http://www.ReadingWithMonie.com
www.marjoleinbookblog.blogspot.com
http://worducopia.blogspot.com
http://thereviewfromhere.wordpress.com/
http://zensanity.blogspot.com/
http://scribevibe.blogspot.com/
http://cafeofdreams.blogspot.com/
http://carolsnotebook.wordpress.com
http://msbookish.com
http://exlibrisbb.blogspot.com/
http://www.brimfulcuriosities.com
http://cindysloveofbooks.blogspot.com/
http://38thavedivareaders.blogspot.com
http://bookthoughtsbylisa.blogspot.com
http://bookopolis.blogspot.com -
www.myreadingroom.net
www.bookbargainsandpreviews.com
http://mindingspot.blogspot.com/
http://epicrat.blogspot.com

A big thank you to Anna at Hachette Books for the opportunity to read My Little Red Book and participate in this tour!

March Challenge: Throw Out 50 Things

I live amid piles.

Clothes, books, magazines, toys, cds, etc.

Piles.

The stuff is taking has taken over our lives.

In a two bedroom apartment, there really isn’t need for all of this clutter.

There are times when I come home and feel suffocated by everything around me. My heart races, I feel boxed in, and I get the overwhelming desire to open the door to our balcony and start heaving things onto the grass below.

My husband is a “piler” as well. If I attempt to de-clutter and throw away newspapers that he’s read that are 2-3 months old…well, he throws an absolute fit. (as though I’ve just thorwn away a winning lottery ticket)

This month, I am embarking on a plan to de-clutter, with the help of author Gail Blanke and her book: Throw Out 50 Things: Clear the Clutter, Find Your Life.

photo courtesy of LibraryThing.com

photo courtesy of LibraryThing.com

Every week I’ll be reviewing the chapters I’ve read and sharing what I’ve added to my list of 50. (hopefully my husband will join be in this, but I’m not holding my breath)

Be sure to check back to see my progress. And feel free to do this along with me, and post some comments if you do.

Visit Gail Blanke’s website here to find out more about her and the book.

James Patterson Giveaway

The giveaway for this book is now closed. Please come back tomorrow to see if you are a winner!

Thanks for participating!

Blog Tour Launch: Riding the Waves of Forty

Let me share a few things.

1. I’m nearing forty. (okay, I’ll be 39 soon, but who’s counting)

2. I’m not divorced.

3. I’m a mom.

4. And I hope that one of MY friends will book an awesome vacation for me when I DO turn forty.

(Ahem, Ladies, you know who YOU are)

There are days when I find myself having mini midlife crises. You know, the “What ifs” start knocking around in my head.

“What if I had stayed single?”

“What if I had married someone else?”

“What if MY marriage ended?”

You know readers, a gal could drive herself positively (yes, I’ll say it, so cover your eyes if bad words bother you) apeshit letting those “what ifs” take over.

Welcome into my rather bizarre segue into my book review.

Taaaaah Daaaah!

At the opening of Flirting With Forty, Jackie is lamenting single motherhood while trying to get ready for her first Christmas post divorce. The Mommy guilt is right there on the pages.

*Mom trying to find the perfect tree.

*Mom thinking back on Christmases past.

*Mom upset that her nine year old son is now the “man of the house.”

*After searching for the “perfect” tree and decorating it with her children, it comes crashing down during the night. (irony, metaphor, foreshadowing? You be the judge)

Jackie needs a glass of wine and a massage. Among other things.

But hold that thought what that “other” thing might be.

Jackie tries to make a perfect holiday for herself and her children, but can’t quite muster it, even after inviting her friends (still married) for dinner. The divorce has been too hard. Emotions are still running high.

Her friend Anne offers to plan a girls weekend trip to commemorate Jackie’s 40th birthday.

Sign me up, right?

They go to Hawaii.

Scratch that. Anne’s husband gets sick, so she bails at the last minute.

This is where the fun begins.

Sunshine.

Beaches.

Warm weather.

Tropical drinks.

No children.

And hot surf instructors.

Yeah baby.

When I saw When Stella Got Her Groove Back, seeing Taye Diggs put (ahem) a spring in Stella’s step was like putting buttah on a hot cornbread muffin.

Jackie finds her own hot cornbread muffin in Hawaii.

His name is Kai.

And he not only buttahs her cornbread.

No M’am.

Ladies, those of you with children…

remember life right after the baby came?

Sleepless nights?

Dazed?

Confused?

Goofy smile plastered on your face for whatever reason?

That’s Kai.

Without the diapers and 2 AM feedings.

What’s going to happen after she returns to the mainland?

Things didn’t quite turn out for Stella and Winston.

What happens to Jackie and Kai?

Ya Gotta Read The Book People!

You can enter my contest to win one. (see yesterday’s post)

And if you REALLY want a peek into Jackie’s experience, tune into Lifetime this Saturday night and watch the TV movie version of the book.

And if you do watch, come back and tell me what you thought.

We’ll compare notes, m’kay?

While you’re at it, visit some of these bloggers participating in this tour.

(and show them some comment love, eh?)

http://www.myfriendamysblog.com
http://BermudaOnion.wordpress.com
http://bookcritiques.blogspot.com/
http://sharonlovesbooksandcats.blogspot.com/
http://thetometraveller.blogspot.com/
http://printedpage.wordpress.com
http://luanne-abookwormsworld.blogspot.com
http://Books-Movies-Chinesefood.blogspot.com
http://AllisonsAtticBlog.blogspot.com
http://Skrishnasbooks.blogspot.com
http://blog.literarily.com
http://www.bookingmama.blogspot.com
http://cherylsbooknook.blogspot.com/
http://cindysloveofbooks.blogspot.com/
http://booksbytjbaff.blogspot.com/
http://exlibrisbb.blogspot.com/
http://www.marjoleinbookblog.blogspot.com
http://bookopolis.blogspot.com
http://www.anovelmenagerie.com
http://wendisbookcorner.blogspot.com
http://thebookczar.blogspot.com
http://www.thebookgirl.net
http://acircleofbooks.blogspot.com
http://01crazymomma.wordpress.com/
http://ablogofbooks.blogspot.com/
http://www.bookthoughtsbylisa.blogspot.com
http://enroutetolife.blogspot.com/
http://athomewithbooks.blogspot.com

*****This book has been rated five surfboards and a shaking hula booty.*****

Blog Tour: Surf’s Up Giveaway

Need something to read over the Christmas holidays, when the days are dark and cold?

Are you the type of person who always walks the straight and narrow, never jumping into something new feet first?

Meet Jackie:

Divorced.

Heart broken.

Mom of two kids.

Ex-Husband moved on with another woman.

And Jackie’s pushing forty.

What’s a girl to do?

Want to read more about Jackie?

Then you’ll have to come back tomorrow to read the full review, and check out the links of everyone else who have read this awesome, funny, book we all can relate to, whatever stage we’re at in our lives:

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BUT WAIT, THERE’S MORE!

As part of this awesome blog tour, I am hosting a giveaway for FIVE copies of Jane Porter’s book: Flirting With Forty.

Here’s what you want to do:

1.Leave a comment about the most out of character thing you would do to put some “oomph” into your life.

2. Leave a link to your blog, if you have one. Or some way that I can contact you if you’ve been chosen to receive a copy of the book.

3. Got a milestone birthday coming up, like Jackie? Tell us how you’d celebrate.

Winners will be announced here on Sunday, December 7, at 6PM EST.